Who You Are is How You Lead
Thursday, February 26th, 2009“The greatest way to live with honor in this world is to be what we pretend to be.” Socrates
If you are practicing the ‘fake it ’till you make it’ philosophy of life beware. People are looking for that which is real.
The world we live in is much less predictable and that means the rules are changing. I am observing people looking for leaders and managers whom they can trust. Sensitivity to authentic leadership is on everyone’s radar and depth of character is being sought out.
Jon Eisele, Partner at Deloitte, sent me an email this week commenting on how the current business environment might shape our expectations of leaders. Jon writes:
“I think leadership today is more about servant-leadership than it has ever been. We have to remind ourselves continuously that ‘who we are’ is far more important than ‘what we accomplish’. Too many examples of people who minimized personal character in order to win…Barry Bonds, Alex Rodriquez, Bernie Madoff, Tom Petters.”
I think Jon might be on to something. What do you think?
In the Bernie Madoff scheme, it is interesting how his victims speak more emotionally about his arrogance and disrespect of them, than the millions of dollars they’ve lost because of him. The pain and devastation of their financial loss is overshadowed by Madoff’s utter contempt for them as people, colleagues and friends. I mean, it is one thing to grapple with a shattered trust, but when the person who betrayed you shows no remorse it is practically unbearable. A broken trust is the most devastating blow to the human spirit.
So, how do you build trust and gain credibility to lead in a time when every leader is suspect? (more…)

